Archive | April 2020

Create an ‘Outdoor Play Kitchen’

Stuck for something to do while in isolation? Do you want to promote engrossed play?
Do you want to foster learning?
Do you want your children to connect with nature instead of the internet?
Or
Are you a teacher wanting to get your teeth stuck in to something when you return to your learning setting?

I challenge you to work together with your child/ren to
Plan, create and build a mud kitchen/outside play kitchen in your back yard.


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    First up, you need to plan where. Talk about this together. Work through reasonings. This needs to be in a space where the ground can get stood on and potential turn to dirt/mud, preferably where near forage and in reach of a hose to maintain tidiness of the space.

    Next, the plan. Take a walk around the house together. What have you got at home? Can you reuse and recycle some junk? Perhaps a pallet or 2, some old wood, an old table, some wood crates, buckets, baskets and bowls?

    Keep it simple and use what you’ve got!

    What resources have you got around the house? Sticks, shells, bark, stones. Chuck in an old pot, pan, bowl, plastics, muffin trays, jugs and kitchen utensils.

    Do some gardening to add to the space. Plant some herbs, grass and pansies in small pots or old crockery.

    Have you got some large rocks or log stumps/rounds? These make good seats.

    Cable reels make great tables, tyres, planks of wood or recycle an old table.

    There doesn’t need to be water running to it, but if there is a nearby outside tap you could establish expectations early – fill only as needed and turn tap off or tap stays at drippings with bowl unerneath.

    Discuss where you want children to ‘clean’ selves when play is finished.

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    Creating a play space outside where children can play freely and use their imagination holds great learning benefits.

    In this space, children can create, explore, imagine and discover. Children with explore language as they role play. They will invite you in to their play, offering tasty treats and you can gratefully accept, joining their play.

    Preparing the play space in the kitchen, cleaning up during or after the play all teaches aspects of managing self.

    There are also great sensory benefits when working with and playing in nature. All senses are fuelled within this space – touch, sound, sight, taste and smell. The children will also be soaking up the healing properties in nature.

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    As the child/ren mix dirt with water, watch a worm dig or plant herbs and nurture them to grow, they explore science and nature concepts.

    As they work creating tasty morsels, filling containers, counting how many treats needed, sorting and working with order, children explore early mathematical learning.

    Place a clipboard and pencil nearby and I’m sure they will make use of this somehow too. A great extension for early literacy – they might write recipes menus or orders.
    If you have concrete nearby, chalk is a great resource.

    This space will allow the child/ren to become deeply engrossed in their play, thus making the learning more meaningful.

    This space is a working space and can be continuously added to and beautified. Allow the child/ren to take ownership of this space. Allow them to imagine, create and play out their ideas. Let them take the lead in their learning. Let them own this space. Children will play in such a space for years to come.

    Need some more ideas an inspiration?

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    One last note… do I need to remind you about our attitude towards weather?

    Its time to change our attitude


    While the days are sunny and dry at the moment, even when it rains, remember, there is no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing!
    Be smart about your attitude and your approach. Let the children play. Much love.

    Covid 19 – The challenge is set for us to rise above!

    Yesterday it was announced that in New Zealand we have 1 more week in Level 4 Lockdown and then we go to Level 3.

    We are going to be in this for some time. So this one is for you. Particularly if you have children at home.

    Without challenges we cant rise above.
    It’s all about perspective…. how we view things, how calm we can stay and how we respond during these crazy times. The better we can do this, the higher we can rise coming out of this.

    These are unprecedented times. Everyone is facing different challenges and emotions are high. Some of us experiencing feelings we haven’t before.

    Jacinda says we must BE KIND and she is spot on. Start with being kind to YOURSELF.

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    The feelings you feel today are totally valid. No one knows how to deal with these changes, but we all have the power to be kind ourselves. Find some positive, good WILL come from this and the sun will rise again tomorrow.

    Keeping calm, kind and positive is most important, for you and your children. Our children feel our stress, tension, sadness and frustration. They also sense our joy, our calm, and our positivity.

    Inner voice
    I had a phone call from a friend, she was so sad, upset about all sorts of things. We talked about waking up our inner voice. Being aware of what it is saying and remembering to be kind to ourselves.
    I quoted my favourite quote “let your inner voice be the kindest voice you know”.

    I remind myself of this every day. No one can lift you up, feed your soul or give you motivation like you can. So give yourself that time. Because you are so worthy!

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      Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.”
      – Christian D. Larson

    There is no better time than now, to drop ALL parental expectation and worry of judgement, during this time. You do you! Focus on your family and what feels right for you right now.

    Children at home
    Children learn best through play, so, foster this. The more play the better. Preferably unadulterated play. The more children play without you, the deeper their learning.
    Often when children play with adults, the adult adds their ‘truth’ (see my blog post), or what learning they think ‘should’ be happening. When actually, if we allow the child to lead the play and the adult plays the ‘follower’, children connect with their game/play and learn, on a deeper level.

    Empowering our Young Children

    Children will invite you to their play… offer you food from their kitchen, ask you to build blocks with them, want to make a hut. If we can play the ‘silent partner’ and allow them to take us in to their world, we are enabling deep learning to occur. Letting them lead the play fosters engrossed play. Which in turn, promotes play. The more they play the more you can do your work.

    I believe whether you have 1, 3 or 5 children at home, the teaching should be the same. Promote unadulterated play. Encourage your child to play without you.
    Yes a single child misses the ‘social’ part, but that’s when you come in, as a silent partner- be their friend but dont lead or guide the play.
    This will happen in windows throughout the day, naturally allowing times for the child to also play alone.
    Allow siblings to deal with their own issues. Enter their chaos with calm. Give then the expectation that they can sort it out, so in a calm manner, remind then “talk about it, work it out”.
    You only need to step in if someone is going to get hurt.

    If you are being the ‘entertainer’ then your child is going to want to be entertained or have entertainment all day long. Encourage your child to play in the garden, give them some resources, perhaps some blankets, sheets, books, cushions, rope, wood.
    Lego/blocks, cards, puzzles.
    Encourage them to play with their ‘toys’.
    Then, have them you prepare food for the day.

    Have your children support you doing ‘house’ stuff. Teaching them cooking, cleaning, washing, and for the older ones, perhaps how to change a tyre. Just living is learning.
    If you need support in understanding the learning that occurs in different ‘house jobs’ I can elaborate…
    Lets start with the washing – these are life lessons –

    Sorting – what washing goes in each load? whose is whose clothes?
    Matching socks (your 2 yr old can work on this) – this is early maths learning!

    Hanging, folding – hand eye co ordination, motor skills.

    Helping – team work, kindness, managing self

    Conversation – language, social learning, listening, understanding, following instruction.

    Baking – science, maths, language, life skills, managing self

    Gardening – connection with nature, kindness, presence, care and nurturing, connection, the wider world.

    There is a lot of great learning available online. However, I urge you to closely supervise online activity.

    School work.. now that’s an interesting one. I personally believe if your child wants to do school work, that’s fine. The Ministry of Educationhave sent put some cool learning packs and there is ‘school stuff’ on He Papa Kainga – the Learning Hub TV2 9-3pm weekdays. BUT, if your child doesn’t want to, dont put ANY pressure on them or you to do so. They are already learning.

    We need to lose the pressure, avoid social media if this makes you feel negatively – anxious, not good enough, different, etc.

      Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness
      – Deborah Day

    Hot Tip
    Start the day with movement and nature. Exercise – walk, bike ride, work out and GET OUTSIDE.

    Implement routine and introduce some positive rituals.
    Paul and I every day at dinner talk about what we are grateful for each day. A small ritual like this fosters reflection, positivity and communication. We must take time to find gratitude in our world.

    Write down things you ‘miss’ and want to do when this isolation period is lifted. Put them in a jar and when all of this is over, get the jar and work through achieving these things.

      Start where you are,
      Use what you have,
      Do what you can
      . ”
      – Arthur Ashe

      Stay home
      Stay clean
      Stay calm
      Stay kind

      Lets finish what we started
      – Jacinda Ardern